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SELF LOVE AND JOY AND SATISFACTION IN LIBRARIANSHIP

Jennifer Cram

© Jennifer Cram 1991. Originally delivered as an Invited keynote address
at the First National Forum On Library Promotion, Adelaide.
Published in Australasian Public Libraries and Information Services June 1991
and in Issues 17, August 1991, 4-7

ABSTRACT: A review of factors affecting the image of librarians which concludes that librarians feed and support negative images of themselves. Basic to the promotion of libraries is the need to ensure that every library worker believe in his or her own worth.


Before I go on to explain why I have chosen to consider the question of the image of librarians in this way, I want to tell you a story. It is a very personal story and one for which, quite frankly, I have gone round and round trying to find a substitute that would be as powerful in setting the scene for this paper. In the final analysis only this one seemed to convey the message as exactly as it should be conveyed.

Almost half a century ago, in a place where there was no humanity, a concentration camp in Eastern Europe, a perfect stranger cared enough to give a child a sense of his own humanity. From somewhere in that sea of mud, someone, whom he in later years remembers as an old man but who, as we well know, could equally have been a young woman, found a stone, a small, dark, misshapen pebble. He gave it to him saying, 'Never forget that you are spe cial. You own a piece of the universe.'

The child survived and grew up, without family, unsure of his own identity, having forgotten his own name, unsure of his exact age never having known his date of birth, having lived through horrors that you and I can only imagine, to be the most secure and loving person - entirely, I am sure, because he did have such a clear conception of his own unique worth. He died tragically, as a fairly young man. The last words he said to me were:

Not to participate in the legitimate joys of this life is an offence against God

That is a quotation from the Talmud and it was an injunction which I have very much tried to take to heart. Think about the words carefully. The verb is participate not spectate; it is active, not passive.

The most legitimate of all joys, in fact, the joy without which all other joys are diminished, is joy in oneself. Self pride and self joy are as vital to the individual as are air and water . A person's self esteem is a measure of the extent to which he approves of and accepts himself, and regards himself as praiseworthy, either absolutely, or in comparison with others. Self esteem determines one's health, one's looks, one's success in one's profession as well as in one's private life.

Negative Images

Yet when I look around the library profession it seems to me that we worry more about our libraries than we do about ourselves. We promote them, dead things though they are, while ignoring or at best only briefly acknowledging, those who make libraries and their services live. Even worse, we tend to blame others for our image problems instead of firmly shouldering the blame and getting on with taking positive and workable steps to change th at image.

Those who have low self esteem are shy, easily embarrassed, eager to be approved of and easily influenced by social pressures. Insecure people, that is those who have not formed a stable se lf image, are very sensitive to the reactions of others, since they are still seeking information that will shape their self image. Those who have achieved an integrated identity are no longer so bothered by the reactions of others, and are not upset if o thers assess them incorrectly or react negatively towards them. I put it to you that, in a very real way, we feed and support negative images of librarians.

I am not talking so much about the way we tend to react with shrill denials when librarians are depicted by the advertising industry as dried up, lisle-stockinged, lemon peel mouthed old ma ids, even though such denials tend to suggest to others that perhaps there is some basis for such criticism. In our society it seems that the way to confirm a nasty rumour is to deny it publicly. Because of this I would oppose the suggestion that we mount an advertising campaign that specifically tries to dispel the stereotype on the ground that it would probably inadvertently contribute to the stereotype. The more you shout that there is no problem, the more you plant the idea that there is a problem.

Stereotypes

And there is a problem. The subconscious cannot accept a joke. It takes every form of labeling seriously. That is why, however much we deny it, individually and collectively, to a ce rtain extent, we do accept as accurate the stereotypical image of librarians and therefore we tend to behave in ways which reinforce that image when we should be treating the stereotypical image as the joke it is, accepting that on a conscious level, peop le for the most part know a joke (even a bad one) when they hear or see one.

Every profession has its negative stereotypes - the Shylock lawyer, the fat cat overservicing doctor, the paedophile clergyman - and the negative stereotypes of other professions are, I sub mit, far worse than ours because ours is the only stereotype that does not suggest an element of exploitation of others

The Image Problem

Let us take a minute to examine our so-called 'image problem' a little more closely. What are the components of this image about which we complain? Basic appearance and personality, status and salary would sum it up fairly. While we are focusing on the derogatory components of our public image, we do not always recognise that librarians are actually held up as believable people by the advertising business. Professionals do not like the adve rtisements which show libraries and librarians as quiet and stodgy, but they tend to overlook the implied compliment in some of those ads which show librarians as knowing what they are talking about.

I once heard a wonderful story about an apology made by a representative of an advertising agency to a nutrition scientist who had complained that a librarian had been used in an advertisem ent for bread rather than a dietician. He explained that marketers had determined that librarians are viewed by the public as more believable than dieticians! When you look at this particular issue quite dispassionately, you have to come to the conclusion that there are a lot worse things than being thought to be helpful or intelligent. It should be a matter of comfort to us all that our stereotypical old maidish, shy and given to detail image is actually a reassurance that the public does not seek out li brarians for their physical or personal charms.

I'm not suggesting that our image could not be better, but we should accept that why librarians are seen the way they are reflects complex social and cultural forces that have short changed traditionally 'pink collar' professions, both in remuneration and respect. I am concerned about the effect of our public image on ourselves, in particular about the way in which members of our profession seem to accept that everyone else has a right to c hart our own destiny. As a result, in our professional area, we fail to exercise our most basic freedom as individuals. Each of us has the freedom to choose how we will respond to the circumstance in which we find ourselves.

While we cannot always control what others do to us or what happens to us, or indeed what others think of us, each of us can control how we react to what others do to us, how we cope with what happens to us, and how we respond to the opinions of others.

Self Limitations

Most of the limitations that keep us from realising our full potential are artificial, merely being imposed on us with our permission by circumstances or by other people. The real limitatio ns that rob us of our freedom to make the best of what we have and of what we are, have to do with the way we see ourselves and the world around us. Our attitudes hold us back from becoming all that we were created to be. In short, our mental image of our selves determines more about us than any other single factor affecting our lives and the question we must ask ourselves is whether we are, perhaps unconsciously, actually seeking out the sort of criticising public image we believe we have, because critici sm is preferable to getting no attention at all.

The Importance of Words

William Faulkner once gave some very good advice to a student:

I have found that the greatest help in meeting any problem with decency and self respect and whatever courage is demanded is to know where you yourself stand. That is, to have in words what you believe and are acting from

Words play a very important part in influencing how we see ourselves. Most of our thinking is language based. We are, as a species, very proud of our language based thinking system and we believe it to be rather wonderful - which it is. It is the only game in town and our culture is so dependent on language based thinking that we cannot really conceive of anything else. Yet language based thinking has some very serious deficiencies and dang ers. By its nature, language based thinking gives distinctions, separations and categories. This is hardly surprising since this is the very purpose of language. Language based thinking tends to give identity and permanent labels. And therein lies both it s strengths and its dangers.

We have all heard of self fulfilling prophecies. Our subconscious accepts and acts upon whatever we label outselves. Besides the dangers of the categorisation and permanence of language based thinking, which are bad enough, there is the related and in many ways greater danger which comes from our merry acceptance of warped and sanitised language. The sort of statement which we all make and accept at face value without realising just how rid iculous it is -'You make me so angry', for example. No one can make us angry; we choose to react to some behaviour in that way. But the inaccuracy is deeper than that. We label what we feel 'anger' and therefore we imagine that we actually do feel angry i n that situation because it is socially acceptable to call it anger (which it patently is not) and it is not socially acceptable to call what we are feeling frustration at failing in an attempt to manipulate another person's behaviour in accordance wit h our own selfish wishes - even though that would be the more accurate description. If we are to succeed, not only in creating success in the truest sense but in individual promotion activities, we have to take William Faulkner's advice but we have to make sure that the words we use do not contribute to the problem by disguising what it actually is.

The Prometheus Principle

I believe that the most urgent problem librarians have to overcome is not the image we have outside the profession, but rather a grave problem within the profession, a problem caused by what I choose to call the Prometheus Principle. You will recall that the Greek god Prometheus was such a trickster that he could change into any person he chose to be. He changed into so many different people that eventually he forgot who he was. I tend to t hink that precisely because we, as individuals, do not have a positive enough self image, we are tending to apply the Prometheus Principle to our libraries, and that is a problem.

A good, positive self image is not self centred egotism, personal complacency, smug self satisfaction, and disdain for others. A good positive self image is accepting yourself as the person you are, holding warm and nonjudgmental regard for others, being willing to take risks, finding positive ways to express your individuality, and being self reliant and self determining. In short, someone with a positive self image is never a manipulator and certainly never a willing victim.

Are We Forgetting What Service Is?

We are lucky. We work in a profession that facilitates development of self esteem. Librarianship is a service profession and one of the most beautiful rewards in life is that any time you try to serve someone else you serve yourself more. It gives you genuine self respect. But I wonder whether we are forgetting what service really is.
The profession appears to be becoming loud apologists for librarians rather than quiet supporters. There is a headlong rush into change - change of all sorts. We have changed the name of our Association. We seem to be purging the word Librarians from as many titles as possible. There is a move away from the recognition of the basic role of reading, and the broader role of the library in communicating ideas, which are areas in which the profession has some measure of monopoly, in favour of a push from within the profession for libraries to concentrate on the narrower, information management aspect of libraries, which most definitely is not an area unique to our profession.

The Prominence Myth

One of the reasons for this move is our acceptance of the prominence equals success myth. When most of us think about people who we think of as examples of success and motivat ion we tend to choose prominent people. In a sectionalised profession such as ours, there is perhaps slightly greater opportunity for people to become prominent within our closed groups. Yet I suggest to you that one of the reasons that librarians have a less than great self image is because the prominence myth is a shabby view of success.

A lot of unhappiness arises when people are taught to see themselves as failing when realistically they are not. Within our profession, the opinions of those of us in prominent positions ar e given far too much precedence by others. People tend to imagine that success is getting to the top 1% of one's profession and that those who have achieved that are somehow better qualified to set the direction for all of us and what is worse, that until you have made the grade what you have to say is of little account. The truth of the matter is that it seems that all one actually has to aim for is to get into the top 20% of one's profession and the impetus of that will keep one succeeding in terms whic h professionals accept as success - ie promotions, prominence within the profession, invitations to speak at conferences and so on.

Every single person who is part of our profession brings to that profession a unique combination of experience, talents and insight, and has therefore a unique contribution to make - just a s long as he or she does not assume that because he or she is not yet prominent, success has not been achieved. For the profession to virtually ignore this treasure store of talent until the individual has been given the imprimatur of prominence is to con tribute to a victim ethos.

Studies show that in the commercial world, at least 90% of ideas for profit improvement and growth flow upwards in an organisation (given of course that the organisation has a positive clim ate, open communications, a team approach and a company-first attitude). So it is possibly not too outrageous a thought that a collective acceptance of the prominence myth could contribute to a lessening of overall effectiveness. But even those who are pr ominent in our profession have the unfortunate tendency to fall for the prominence myth - or, at least their behaviour and reactions would lead us to believe that this is the way they think, because it would appear that they regard those who are prominent in a more general sense, such as politicians, to be more successful than themselves and therefore are endowed with a greater right to determine the future direction of libraries.

The Enemy

Occasionally Pogo, that great philosopher of the comic strip, has a way of putting his claw right on the problem. Once, after trying to fight a battle that did not exist, he gave us this bi t of insight:

We have met the enemy and he is us!

Thoreau said it a little more poetically:

As long as a man stands in his own way, everything seems to be in his way.

In other words, the greatest obstacle in our way on the road to success is ourselves.

The Victim Ethos

I started this paper with a reference, albeit oblique, to Hitler's so-called 'Final Solution'. It is a subject that has always intrigued me, not from the point of view of why he was so determined to eliminate so many different groups of people - irrespective of the scale on which it manifests itself, insanity is still insanity - but from the point of view of why so many people went so apparently meekly to incarceration in horrendous conditi ons, and ultimately to extermination.

If one reads European history, particularly Eastern European history, one can see a pattern, repeated instances where many of these groups apparently accepted the right of others to conduct pogroms against them - it would seem that there was an ingrained belief that if individuals did not fight back, the punishment would be milder and the culture would survive.

There is a single line in Die Madchen aus Viterbo, a radio play by Gunter Eich, which epitomises the victim ethos. An elderly man and his granddaughter are sitting in their apartment waiting for the SS to come and collect them. To while away the time they are reading an old magazine in which there is a story about a group of girls from Viterbo who got lost in the Catacombs on a school trip to Rome. In their discussion of this inciden t, a discussion which is really about their own situation, the grandfather remarks:

You must sit on the chair you are walking towards.

This is preaching an acceptance philosophy - active acceptance of those things you believe to be inevitable - which sounds all very well but is really a form of appeasement of those we believe to be 'in charge'.

Appeasement

Many of the recent events in libraries across this country indicate to me that there could be an element of appeasement in the way librarians have reacted to what is often touted as the cha nging economic climate, but which, on closer examination, could well be appeasement of the more prominent rather than a real attempt to address the challenges resulting from the need for tighter management without becoming victims. A doctrine is being pre ached which suggests that we sacrifice individual aspects of library service presumably in the interests of ensuring survival of 'library culture'.

Let us turn to the advice given to the library profession by Major Owens, the only librarian-member of the United States Congress.

The library profession is at a pivotal point. This decade is a decisive one for all groups and individuals related in one way or another to the information service sector. In this age o f information, the recognition of the power of information is growing, and the business of library and information services has been perceived as too critical to be left to the library profession by itself.

Although he does not say who is doing the perceiving there, I am totally convinced that though others may be following, it is the profession which first generated this perception.

The self image of individuals within the profession collectively transmits an aura of insecurity. We easily credit animals, particularly horses and dogs, with a sixth sense that enables the m to perceive fear in humans. We tend not to accept that we all possess that sixth sense and the way in which we relate to others, whether or not they have credibility in our eyes, is largely determined by the aura of confidence they project.
This is not New Age gobbledegook - it is pure, proven fact that people treat you in the manner which your manner demands. 'What you are speaks much more loudly than what you say' is a statement which has been confirmed again and again through research. Effective communications are dependent 9% on the words we use, 38% on how we say it, and 53% on body language.

Assuming this research is correct, we can say that 91% of our communication is directly related to our attitude, as attitude will have a dominating impact on how we say things and our body language will be predominantly controlled by out thinking and our emotional state which in turn are largely determined by our philosophy.

Owens advises us to create a solidarity among all those who carry the title of Librarian.

The tragedy, he says, is that our abundant knowledge and paper plans are not enough. The need is for focus, for concentration, for a central guiding strategy...If the library profession did not exist, it would have to be invented. Despite the fact that society presently refuses to recognise this, librarians still have the duty to conduct themselves under the assumption that librarians everywhere would raise the profession to a new level of pride and profundity...Such a firmly held and articulated position would serve as a beginning bulwark against the intruding forces which seek to manipulate library and information policies to serve vested interests...Constructive arrogance is clearly one of the qualities needed for the success of any profession.

We face the danger that the effective librarian will be replaced by the efficient library. It is a danger that will be made even more real if we continue to allow a poor self image to limit us.

Just before George Bernard Shaw's death a reporter asked him if he could live his life over and be any of the people he had known, or any person from history, who he would choose to be.

I would choose, replied Shaw, to be the man George Bernard Shaw could have been but never was.

It is time for us to take steps to ensure that we change the way we look at ourselves, that we start behaving as if we are the people we want to be, rather than the people we believe we are . Of all the possible target groups for promotion activity by the profession, I suggest that at this juncture the most important group is those who work in libraries. Without ensuring that everyone who works in a library in Australia both knows what libra ries are for and how important they are to each individual citizen of this country as a whole, and ardently believes in his or her own worth as a library worker, any other promotion initiative will achieve less than we would hope for.

Earl Nightengale tells the story of a professor who asked a group of college educators to boil down into a brief statement of all the books every written on how to motivate people. After a long discussion they came up with the following statement which says it all:

What the mind attends to, it considers; what it does not attend to, it dismisses. What the mind attends to continually, it believes; and what the mind believes it eventually does.

We have to make sure that what we actually do is what we set out to do. WE have to be positive in our outlook, and proud of the fact that we are Librarians, and that pride must be evident in everything we do. The image that the world has of us, and which does have a bearing on our effectiveness, will only change if our self image changes first.
Perhaps the library profession needs a slogan, not a public slogan, but rather a private slogan, almost a secret password binding us together. I put forward for your consideration my nomination, the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson:

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared with what lies within us.